Whether we identify with male or female gender, we are made of the masculine and feminine energies (yin and yang). It’s the concept of duality where the one nourishes the other and vice versa. We live in a very male driven society which has led to a domination of the wounded masculine and disrespect of the feminine. Sweet reminder we all have both regardless of gender!
Balancing these two energies is key to a more balanced and better world. Both energies have a healthy divine aspect and a wounded aspect.
Healthy divine aspect: shining light on what is unhealthy/ wounded. Alchemising this into healthy divine energy
Wounded aspect: led by ego, moving into pain, place of darkness and fear
It’s not about saying ‘no to the wounded male or female energies’ it’s about becoming aware of our unhealthy patterns, of our wounded self - so that we break the patterns of reacting and projecting them onto others. When we heal/balance the masculine & feminine energies within, there can be a divine union in relationship, where each feels safe, held in their highest potential, creating trust & deep intimacy.
Where do you see yourself? Where is there still some healing to do and where you can step into your divine energies and embody them.
There is nothing more attractive than a man embodied in the healthy, divine masculine.
The healthy/divine masculine:
He is deeply present and listens without being distracted
He doesn't judge
He creates a safe environment
He doesn't take things personally
He is a guiding force, supportive and encouraging
He has discipline and knows when to be focused
He is a man of his word, honest and accountable
He is humble
He is of service and does what is in the highest good
He is grounded
A woman, embodied in her healthy, divine feminine, attracts and is able to receive & hold such a man.
The healthy/divine feminine:
She is grounded, receptive, reflective
She has strong boundaries
She is gracious in her strength
She is loving, empathetic, compassionate and supportive
She knows how to ask for what she needs
She is vulnerable
She is authentic
She is not afraid to speak her heart and does so with no shame
She flows through life effortlessly
She knows how to surrender, be open and trusting
She is naturally intuitive and listens to her heart rather than her mind
She manifests and creates
She is confident in her body and with her femininity.
She exudes beautiful, sensual energy and attracts naturally,
The unhealthy/wounded feminine:
She is usually insecure and looks for external validation
She can be critical and her loved ones feel like they can never do anything right, because she always has something to criticize
She is needy in her relationships, she needs to feel loved and asks (begs) for it
She can't control her emotions
She tends to be manipulative
She is afraid of loss and is very attached (in an unhealthy, excessive way)
She over connects and over shares her emotions and needs
She is desperate for love and always chasing it
She feels like a victim
She sacrifices herself; she prioritizes others at her expense
She can come across as inauthentic
She has an unhealthy internal masculine: no boundaries or self control
The unhealthy/wounded masculine:
He is competitive and always wants to win
He is focused on goals and attached to success
He tends to avoid connection and can be cold and distant
He takes everything personally
He needs to be right
He fears failure
He defends himself, attacks, accuses
He sometimes runs away from love, withdraws, creates separation
He can be aggressive
He is critical and judgmental
He is narcissistic and selfish
He can't really, deeply listen to others
He is stuck in the mind
He isn't in touch with his emotions
He can have addictions to work, drugs, tv etc.
He has unhealthy internal feminine who is serious, rigid and controlling
I’ve been living in my wounded feminine for way too long! So no more!
Love we are a mirror, until we won’t heal, we will attract the same things over and over again. By saying ‘YES’ to this deep work you will attract ease and flow not only in your relationships, but also in your businesses.